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For example, when at home everyone gets along and does activities together, but in public the child may ignore the step parent and keep a distance.The reason is because being in public is a less frequent occurrence when compared to being at home in private.As with anything new, practice is needed or in this case just feeling comfortable with this new situation.After time, the child will feel more and more comfortable and frustration will lessen.Her so called husband has already married another woman and that is the reason for the divorce.He abuses her constantly and the marriage was also by force and deceit.Try dealing with these points: The Ex is a bad influence on the children, The ex cheated which meant the relationship ended with severe strain on the children and spouse who was betrayed, sharing children is NEVER a fun thing....think so?
Now you have 2 parents who don't live together and 2 Step-Parents/BF/GF all putting their input in to "what's right".
Think about it: Those same kids are going to grow up and want to be #1 with their new love interest.
Imagine if they get married and have children and either spouse is # 2, 3, or worse? Keep the nucleus of the family between the parents and the children learn what a health relationship is....balanced with respect and love for the children at all times.
All it takes is for one of them to be a bad influence and you have trouble. I'm 31, and i'm dating a woman who just turned 39 and has 2 kids (4 and 6).
Throw in child support problems, possible jealousy issues with any of them, and any of the children have psych issues from the divorce itself and it's a big nut to crack. I've never been great around kids, they annoy me a lot, though i always thought i wanted kids, it's not my time.