Hes dating someone else
His attention has already drifted to someone else if he goes radio silent and you find yourself always having to be the initiator, it could be that he’s emotionally removing himself from your relationship because talking and texting with someone else seems way more appealing.Being busy is one thing, but a pattern of gradual disinterest and one-word responses makes things pretty obvious.Sex is a common theme in our conversations, and when in public it's very very rare we pay our separate ways. However, he's dating someone else (M/21), they've been together about two months.He knows this upsets me, so we generally act as if this guy doesn't exist.There are times however when something slips through, and our attention is briefly on him (he'll call or something while we're together for example), and these things hurt me a lot as he tries to damage control. And we slept separately, which I expected, but was still hurt by.It was the first time we've slept in the same room without having sex first or being in each other's arms...If your dude is finding it hard to maintain eye contact with you when you’re having a normal conversation – not an interrogation – it could be because his eyes are actually on someone else!
I (M/19) met this best friend (M/21) online about a year ago.It’s that kind of blow to the ego and the heart when your boyfriend/fling/hook-up/FWB loses interest in you and leaves you holding the bag. Perhaps you were so wrapped up in yourself that you failed to notice all the things he did the moment someone else caught his eye.No one likes to feel as if they’d been played for a fool, which is why we’re here to help you out – and prevents you from getting blindsided next time.I wear my heart on my sleeve, so my thoughts about him may not be /fully/ out there... His advice was to not do anything to disrupt the friendship, because it is so ingrained in my life, enjoy the friendship, and be mindful of how quickly time can change things. If someone's taking up that much of my time, we'd better be dating, or they can get lost." I think you maybe need to tell him that and see what he says.In a month he could be all over me or I could be over him. If he can hold a conversation with you for 3/4 hours a day (Hell, I have a hard time doing that with guys I'm in a relationship with), he can handle getting that ultimatum.