My roles and responsibilities of dating
He gave in to something he knew was wrong and then he blamed his wife. Does blaming his wife help Adam avoid responsibility? He says to God, "The woman you sent me gave it to me and I ate it." I couldn't believe it.When he sees a situation that needs to be dealt with, he should step forward and handle it.
When she asks for input on a decision, he says, "It's up to you." He wants to be nice but he doesn't realize he's frustrating her. Like a lot of men these days, I received so many messages on what a man in a relationship should be, I was bewildered. If a man works on himself and develops himself to be worthy, the woman will be his partner. What happens next in the world's first relationship? They have one commandment: Don't eat the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge. You're not responsible for what happened." Just the opposite.
God wanted to completely satisfy Adam spiritually and provide him a wife to complete him naturely. We wanna serve the Lord half-hearted and have Him to do a complete work in our marriages.
We as men have gotten out of the place of truly worshipping the God that has created us for that purpose.
A man needs to make decisions and take responsibility for the outcome.
If he's reluctant to make decisions, she may resent him.